What matters is not the length of the wand, but the magic in the stick. Am I right?

Saturday, October 25, 2008


Who else? I am disappointed I haven't seen Hubby for two weeks and it is like forever. Plus disappointed with people who keeps on pulling me down. Why can't others be Happy with others success? Why can't they just sit around and focus things with their lives? Oh, well I hope everything will be over soon. And for those people who tries to put me down I let Papa Jesus and Karma haunt you! I will live my life the way I want to, with or without you opinion.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

LIBRA: Yesterday and Today


You're usually good at staying in touch. However, you might need to call a pal you haven't talked to in a while to reassure her that she's still high on your friendship list.


If you're down on your appearance, blame retro Mercury and regain your beauty balance by getting a makeup lesson at an upscale department store. Go to the most expensive cosmetics counter and ask for samples to try before you buy.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

How to Please Yourself

Most of the time, we as women are so into nurturing our man, and getting him exactly what he wants. In return, we lose us. Sometimes being wives, girlfriends, and mothers, we become so busy working in other people's lives that our own lives sometimes lack what we really want and need. I think that we as millennium women, have now evolved and know how to express what we want, but fall short sometimes in actually getting what we want. The first step in accomplishing this is, learning what you want from your mate, and telling him just that. Cumming is a stress reliever. Never feel stressed when needing to relieve yourself of stress. Stress does cause strokes, and heart attacks.. Live life and learn.

Try these:

Step 1. Your first step must be to get rid of everyone in the house! Just tell the kids, husband, boyfriend, that you need to clean the house alone, and they would just be in the way. if you have small children, tell your mate to get the kids, and promise him he can have the remote for 30 days!

Step2. After everyone has left your establishment, now it's time to do you! turn on your music, get naked, and walk around the house singing one of your favorite songs; Dance until you want to drop. Once you have gotten your adrenalin kicking, you will feel sooo happy to just have some alone time, you won't even notice how you probably will breeze throughout the empty house.

Step3. After you have been in touch with the friendlier side of you..Don't forget your focus..You are there to release some tension, and find out how you want to be pleasured. Run some hot bath water, use your cucumber melon bubble bath, pour you a bottle of your favorite beverage, and breathe. Take this time to let go of all negative energy. Cucumbers are known relaxers.. After you dry off, then you are ready to explore your intimate imaginations Alone.

I hope I was able to help you today. Pleased yourself and enjoy every minute of it. It feels great to be a Woman and a Girl at the same time.

Monday, October 6, 2008



This move requires a little equipment prep. Find a reclining lawn chair or bench (narrow enough for you to get your legs wound around), or line up three backless chairs. Have your man lie down with his arms at his side and his legs together. Facing his toes, straddle his lap and plant both feet on the ground. Next, back yourself down onto his penis. Start moving your hips, back and forth, up and down, and side-to-side — all while he enjoys the killer view of your pivoting posterior.


This fresh entry angle gives you a sweet new sensation on the back wall of your vagina. Move your booty in circular motions around his penis to hit all your pleasure spots. Make sure not to hold back in the sound department so you both know how much the other is enjoying this randy recline ride.

Here's a way to send you both soaring: Fondle his testicles, his perineum (the area between his anus and his testicles), and your clitoris in one long, slow feel with your free hand. The extra attention to these most sensitive spots will enable the two of you to build up to outta-this-world orgasms.

{ Have fun with your partners! }


Consider scheduling time with your boss under serious Mars. Review your accomplishments and back up your statements with facts and figures. You might get handed a career-boosting project.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

7 Kinds of Sex All Couples Need

TAKE-YOUR-SWEET-TIME SEX - When you have the gift of time, languishing in supersensory, soulful lovemaking can be a rhapsodic revelation...and a relationship booster. With sensual sex, it's not all about where you and your guy are going but the process that gets you there. "When you slow down and attempt to keep your orgasm at bay, you're more focused on exploring every inch of each others bodies and savoring your time together."

The emotional benefits are long-lasting too. "Knowing that he cares enough to lavish his love on you for hours, and that you're his number one priority, builds confidence and security." "Plus, your bond in general will feel more intimate because you've made the bedroom a place for enjoying each other, not just sexual sensations."

LIGHT-SPEED SEX - A quickie is kind of like an earthquake: It gets your adrenaline rushing, is over in a flash, and leaves you weak in the knees. Besides releasing your pent-up lust, initiating a quickie can be the ultimate compliment to your guy because it shows how deeply you desire him.

In addition, when he's had a stressful day, a fast and furious romp really takes the edge off. Put simply: "Sometimes guys want to take their time, and sometimes they just want to get their rocks off." When you can tell he's in a horny, hasty mood, don't bother fully undressing — just pull his penis out of the opening in his boxers and push your panties aside. All you need for successful speed sex is lube. "It's your best friend when you don't have time to get completely warmed up."

SHOW-OFF SEX - You may think it would be easier to give a speech in the presence of 500 people than to masturbate in front of your man, but taking that plunge may be worth it — experts say that watching a woman pleasure herself is near the top of most men's fantasy wish lists. But it's not just a very personal peep show; it's a chance to teach him exactly how you like to be manhandled.

Revealing to your guy how you master your own domain is one of the most secretive and intimate things you can do.

COMFORT SEX - Anyone with a pulse would be crazy not to crave a hot-and-spicy sack session. But sometimes all you want is the sexual equivalent of mac and cheese: It may not be exciting, but it makes you feel so good. "People have sex for a lot of different reasons, and one of them is to be soothed and comforted." "Making each other feel loved and cared for is the most powerful way to bring the psychological and physical elements of your relationship together."

WILD-KINGDOM SEX - It's the raw, primal, grunting kind of sex that wakes the neighbors, scares house pets, and rattles bed frames — the more writhing and bucking, the better.

Any animalistic sex session starts, fittingly, on all fours (aka doggie-style). Grab his hands and wrap them around your waist — a cue that you want him to hold on and thrust — and he'll answer your call of the wild. Keep your neck down. It'll help you loosen up all the way down your spine so you can move your tush with gusto.

SURRENDER SEX - Men are conquest-loving creatures, which is why they get so hot when you let them take over. "If he feels like he's at the top of his game, your surrender is a power trip and a huge turn-on."

During foreplay, let your legs fall open and hold the headboard or pillows above you so your whole body is exposed to him. Then invite him to slide on top of you. Meet his thrusts halfway by rocking your pelvis upward against his and lifting your legs in the air with your feet spread far apart. This gives him room to maneuver his body and alternate between deep thrusting and short pumping. Then drape your legs over his shoulders so he can grab your ankles and position them where he wants them. "Tell him you want him to make you come." "It says that you want him running the show because he has the skills to get you there."

FEMALE-DOMINATION SEX - If he's been doing all the pouncing and pawing lately, take the reins. But a truly titillating takeover has to be authentic and not staged, so wait until you're really randy, straddle him, and say, "I'd love to be in charge tonight." Then gently grab his penis and rub it around your clitoris as if he were your personal sex toy.

Once you slip him in, pin his hands to the bed or tie him to the headboard with scarves or stockings while you grind against his lap in a circular motion. Or try this hot move: Stick your breasts in his face and instruct him to flick your nipples with his tongue — the only part of him that's free to move. He'll happily submit to your sexy request.

Another in-command position: girl-on-top 69. Rub your hot spot against his tongue and pivot your hips back and forth in sync with the lip service you're giving him.

That's all for now! I hope you learned something new here!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

How to Make Condoms More Fun!

{ No need to bust out silly party tricks! Thanks to Cosmo's genius tips, wearing protection will be so pleasurable, your man won't ever bitch and moan about it again. }

Making condoms sound playful is easy (love glove, woody hoodie, peter parka...). But coming up with cutesy names isn't enough to get a guy to like wearing one, despite the fact that they ward off unwanted pregnancies and STDs. Lucky for you, Cosmo has found ways to maximize pleasure while using protection. "It's as simple as choosing the right rubber, making him feel at ease, and keeping the intensity high throughout the act," says sexologist Yvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, author of Sex With Your Ex. When you do all three, "he won't have the usual anxiety about losing his erection or not being able to climax." What's more, you'll be able to milk more sensations out of safe sex too. We're sharing it all right here.


Most people spend all of seven seconds choosing a condom, according to data from Trojan. But a last-minute dash to the drugstore can mean less satisfaction in the sack. Below, we explain how to pick a winner.

Size matters. The right fit completely changes how a guy experiences sex with a condom. One that's too tight reduces sensation, takes longer to get on (which can deflate his erection), and is more likely to break. Quick sizing test: If you can't roll the raincoat all the way down to the base of his penis, it's not large enough. That said, an oversize one can slip off, and the extra material can make your dude feel inadequate.

Though the standard size of condoms is about 7 inches long, the length can vary up to an inch and girth sizes also range, so experiment with brands and styles (sites like list size categories).

Try a condom designed with a swirl or bulb at the end of it — it'll say so on the box, usually with a word like twist or pleasure or spiral. These models fit securely around the base of his shaft while creating more friction near the nerve-packed head of his penis.

Consider a polyurethane prophylactic. Unlike latex, they transmit body heat, making intercourse feel more sensual. If you and your guy are committed and STD-free, try a lambskin condom. These also transmit heat, and many men swear this type feels more like skin on skin. But they only protect against pregnancy, since the natural, porous material can allow the transmission of STDs.


Rolling one on doesn't have to ruin the mood.

The faster you can slip on a safety sheath, the less likely he is to go limp. Minimize fumbling by opening the wrapper during foreplay. Pull the condom out, and place two drops of lube inside. This increases sensation at the super sensitive head of his penis. Place the opening over the top of his shaft. Hold it there with one hand, lightly squeeze the tip of the condom, and use the other hand to unravel it all the way down to the base of his member.

For a treat, use your mouth. Dab your lips with lube, then lightly suck the (non-spermicidal!) disc into your mouth with the nipple end inward. (Grossed out? Try a flavored love glove.) Carefully wrap your lips over your teeth and put your mouth at the head of his member. Push your lips against the ring of the condom, slide it down his shaft, and unroll the rest with your hand. Ta-da!


A condom needn't come between you, him, and a climax.

Squeeze your legs together in missionary or doggie-style to create extra pressure.

Make a V with your pointer and middle fingers, then place it between your legs. Press it against the base of his penis as he thrusts. This gives him more stimulation where the condom is tightest (i.e., most numbing).

Buy a vibrating ring — Trojan, Durex, and Life Styles sell them. It's a plastic band attached to a buzzing nub. Place the band around the base of the condom, with the nub facing your clitoris, and enjoy the pulsating ride.

That's it! Well, I guess with or without CONDOMS . . . PERFORMANCE would still matter. Right? Thanks COSMO!

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